ABOUT

stephanie van

“You have to do it for yourself;
no one can do it alone.

— Thich Nhat Hanh

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Steph’s Story

Growing up in Northeast Los Angeles in the 1980s and ’90s felt like trying to navigate without a roadmap. My migrant family and neighbors struggled to survive a system that didn’t make much sense to us nor afforded us much power. What I did have were disempowering messages about what it meant to be a woman, Asian American, and working class. I tried to conform to others’ expectations but, deep down inside, it never felt right.

I ended up with romantic partners and friends that weren’t good for me. Some were abusive. I had deeply internalized racism and sexism that were only amplified when I went to the mostly-white UC Santa Cruz to study psychology and education.

Things started to click for me when I found books, organizing communities, and counselors who could speak to my experience. I finally felt affirmed exactly as I was. I was exposed to more intentional ways of communicating and relating.

I began to see that I had choices about my existence.

I came to embrace my identities as a woman of color, trauma survivor, child of Chinese-Vietnamese refugees, and eventually someone queer and gender nonbinary. I started creating spaces with folks where we could authentically express ourselves, challenge social norms, and heal our wounds.

I found where I shine — collaborating with people to create change in our lives and communities.

During the 2008 No on Prop 8 Campaign in California, I began community organizing in order to build the power of youth and BIPOC whose voices were not being heard in the marriage-focused, LGBTQIA+ rights movement.

After working in research, education, and social services, I earned my Master of Social Welfare degree in 2010 from the University of California, Los Angeles.

Steph’s Experience

My experiences in social work and community organizing shape my work today.

  • Equal Action and LA Worm Farm Collective: Organizational development, community organizing, arts programming, and cooperative farming focused on LGBTQIA+ BIPOC and youth

  • Center for the Pacific Asian Family: Intimate partner and gender-based violence education, outreach, and crisis counseling focused on Asian American and Pacific Islander (AAPI) immigrants and refugees

  • Hai Bà Trưng School for Organizing: Community organizing training and training for trainers for progressive Vietnamese Americans

  • Pacific Clinics: Culturally-responsive mental health curriculum development, training, and coalition building in workplaces and AAPI communities

  • Search to Involve Pilipino Americans: Community-based mental health programs for Filipino and Historic Filipinotown youth, high schools and middle schools, and affordable housing sites

  • Cal State LA Student Union Asian American Pacific Islander Student Center: Student programming as well as campus curriculum development and training

  • California State University, Los Angeles, School of Social Work: Lecturing on culturally-grounded practice, community organizing, social welfare policy, and social welfare history.

I am honored to walk alongside people on their journey to loving their whole selves.

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Relevant Trainings

  • Internal Family Systems, Level 1, for Queer, Trans, Black, Indigenous, People of Color Practitioners (ongoing)

  • Queer/Trans Internal Family Systems

  • Internal Family Systems Online Circle

  • Treating Complex Trauma with Internal Family Systems

  • Trauma Resiliency Model, Level 1

  • Autism Myths 101

  • UndocuAlly

  • Motivational Interviewing

  • Clinical Supervision

  • State of California Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault Advocate

  • Sexual Assault Response Team

While not considered as professional training, engaging in silent meditation retreats and my mindfulness practice are foundational to my therapeutic approach.